When D is Away

D goes on business / training trips a few times in a year, but thankfully he doesn't go too far. What I like about him going away:

1) I get to eat my comfort foods (e.g. Chef Boyardee, instant noodles). D cooks tasty and healthy food for me, so my comfort foods are like a treat, even though I know they're not great for me.

2) I get to dance. Our house has an open-concept layout, so there is plenty of space to dance in. I am too shy to "let loose" around my husband and I don't go clubbing anymore. In the past few weeks, I've been attending hip-hop practices led by one of my youth group girls (with the intention of presenting our routine to the church). I love it because not only do I get to hang out with my girls, but also I get to participate in one of my favourite activities.

3) I get to work late. I know this sounds like a weird one, but I admit that I'm a workaholic. Not needing to come home to eat supper with my husband (which I make a huge effort to do on most days) allows me to stay at work late and accomplish more tasks.

4) I get ready in the morning my way. I can turn up the radio while I get ready for work and I don't have to tiptoe around my sleeping husband. I get to use my ensuite, my closet, and my bedroom instead of the usual "get everything ready in the main bathroom so I don't wake up my husband" routine.

5) I can sleep sideways on the bed if I want to and I don't have to worry about elbowing him in the head or kneeing his stomach.

What I don't like about him being away:

1) The loneliness. It's so quiet around the house and even with the extra lights on, the house seems so empty. D is quiet anyway, but just knowing that he's nearby makes me feel at peace.